12 Jan
There will be instances in life that our faith will be shaken so badly that we feel doubtful of our choice in life. Job, education, and even relationship; we are all afraid that we are unable to carry out what is expected of us.
Pretty scary ar?
Why don’t we try to hold on to that little faith, stay strong and let a tree sprout from the acorn of faith.
It’s about believing something that has yet to be happened, but His promise will come true one day.
Absolut Jesus
25 Nov
If there comes a day where you had a change of heart for me, I won’t allow it to happen to myself before that day comes.
That is my promise to you.
12 Nov
I’m a brother to many, son of two, and a boyfriend to one and only girl in the world.
You spice up my life. =)
15 Oct
Seriously, I’m quite tired of everything. Yes, everything. I seems like I have hit the bottom and it’s a process which everyone will go through. But what really matters is how we can bounce back after hitting the bottom and bounce even higher than before.
When things do go my way, I will have no interest to do it anymore. Morale goes down, spirit goes down, and my mind is lost somewhere.
Or maybe I should be my own director so that I can go things my way.
14 Aug
Everyone has a point in time that he or she fails
Be it whether you:
Fail in business
Fail in relationship
Fail in friendship
Fail in family
Fail to accomplish
Fail your mathematics test
Fail your PSLE
Life still goes on.
Be glad that it happen, because it happened for a cause. And while people says that we should not look back to our past, I believe sometimes it’s necessary to learn and not to repeat what we have done wrong or right. Else, history can be scrap off from our secondary school syllabus.
Once you have accepted the facts and circumstances of what has happened, you will be able to move on.
And reasoning doesn’t apply to every single person because some of them lack common sense.
5 Jul
There are many things in life that is not within our control, especially life and death. God is our healer and we prayed to him, but why do some people never recover from their illness and pass away? Reason is simple, life and death lies in his hands.
If we keep complaining that nothing is good in this world, shouldn’t there be nothing is bad in this world too? We should stop complaining how bad things are and instead thing of positive things around you. If you are feeling down occasionally, people can, and will make an effort to cheer and encourage you. If it becomes too frequent and mood swings multiple times in a day, I can tell you we will also be sick of your attitude. Simply because nothing can make you happy, and we have no idea how to cheer you up.
So please make your life and other’s life easier for goodness sake.
Though we are friends but I am starting to turn off by you already.
1 Jul
Matters of the heart are like a messy ball of wool, it’s us to make it that messy, and only we can make it straight.
It’s not easy remove all the knots in the wool, but it takes effort and time to make it straight.
After all, the reward will be sweet forever.
27 Jun
It’s inevitable for people to get sad over things, because God put emotions into us.
And after all these drama, I finally understood one thing;
You must talk to people when you are feeling down.
It’s not a matter of choice. It is important to get rid of the emotions inside you. Otherwise, you will be building walls around yourself and isolate from the outside world. It’s hard for people trying to console you are so stubborn, thinking that you alone can handle all the stress and emotions.
The next time you are feeling down, open your heart and speak up. You will realize that it’s not the end of the world and everything becomes beautiful again.
27 Jun
I remember that my pastor said to us during one of his sermon:
‘If you have 1 or more best friend that you can share everything with, you are very fortunately.’
But have you ever thought about, what if the problem lies with him/her?
Confusion sets in when what you do doesn’t seems like what is coming out from your mouth, and vise versa. We need to learn how to express what we feel, otherwise it will deliver the wrong message. That is why problem arise when people claim ‘I think he/she …..’ because we think too much w/o asking. But we can’t really blame ourselves because the cards are being lay out in the first place, it will not be the cause of conflict and unhappiness.
Result? Negatives thoughts flood our mind and God knows when we will be fine.
Last word; Worse weekends ever. Period
Can’t wait for Monday.
24 Jun
My colleague was sharing with me about marriage and how it changes people, but this question came to my mind.
It is a must to get married?
There can be many reasons to get married; passing down your family surname down the generation, to have a balance family, bla bla bla. Have you ever realize that these reasons add stress to your life?
But instead, think what you can get from marriage; maturity.
I remember something told me this; if he has to choose 2 candidate for a key appointment holder and these are their background infomation:
Candidate 1: Aged 40, single w/o girlfriend
Candidate 2: Aged 40, married w 2 children
My friend would choose Candidate 2.
Why?
Candidate 2 have his family to support him, a place to fall back when he is unable to hold on, a place that can provide him with love and warmth. Even if he is under stress, he has someone to share. Emotionally wise, he has his wife to share with, and both of them can help out each other.
How about Candidate 1?
He is single, no one to share problems with, and emotionally might not be as stable as Candidate 2.
No doubt that Candidate 2 has family commitments and might not be able to put in as much effort as Candidate which has no commitments, it’s the level of maturity that they have.
Tell me, when you have a wife, wouldn’t you think of her, the family, and make mature decision? If you don’t she will leave you. It’s not the same case if you are single. You are on your whole, meaning you are pretty much thinking of yourself.
So peeps, before marriage come to your mind, please thinking how you can benefit him/her before thinking what you can gain from him/her.
