New light

It’s inevitable for people to get sad over things, because God put emotions into us.

And after all these drama, I finally understood one thing;

You must  talk to people when you are feeling down.

It’s not a matter of choice. It is important to get rid of the emotions inside you. Otherwise, you will be building walls around yourself and isolate from the outside world. It’s hard for people trying to console you are so stubborn, thinking that you alone can handle all the stress and emotions.

The next time you are feeling down, open your heart and speak up. You will realize that it’s not the end of the world and everything becomes beautiful again.

Emotional outburst

I remember that my pastor said to us during one of his sermon:

‘If you have 1 or more  best friend that you can share everything with, you are very fortunately.’

But have you ever thought about, what if the problem lies with him/her?

Confusion sets in when what you do doesn’t seems like what is coming out from your mouth, and vise versa. We need to learn how to express what we feel, otherwise it will deliver the wrong message. That is why problem arise when people claim ‘I think he/she …..’  because we think too much w/o asking. But we can’t really blame ourselves because the cards are being lay out in the first place, it will not be the cause of conflict and unhappiness.

Result? Negatives thoughts flood our mind and God knows when we will be fine.

Last word; Worse weekends ever. Period

Can’t wait for Monday.

Getting married; it is a must or what?

 

 

 

 

 

 

My colleague was sharing with me about marriage and how it changes people, but this question came to my mind.

It is a must to get married?

There can be many reasons to get married; passing down your family surname down the generation, to have a balance family, bla bla bla. Have you ever realize that these reasons add stress to your life?

But instead, think what you can get from marriage; maturity. 

I remember something told me this; if he has to choose 2 candidate for a key appointment holder and these are their background infomation:

Candidate 1: Aged 40, single w/o girlfriend
Candidate 2:  Aged 40, married w 2 children

My friend would choose Candidate 2.

Why?

Candidate 2 have his family to support him, a place to fall back when he is unable to hold on, a place that can provide him with love and warmth. Even if he is under stress, he has someone to share. Emotionally wise, he has his wife to share with, and both of them can help out each other.

How about Candidate 1?

He is single, no one to share problems with, and emotionally might not be as stable as Candidate 2.

No doubt that Candidate 2 has family commitments and might not be able to put in as much effort as Candidate which has no commitments, it’s the level of maturity that they have.

Tell me, when you have a wife, wouldn’t you think of her, the family, and make mature decision? If you don’t she will leave you. It’s not the same case if you are single. You are on your whole, meaning you are pretty much thinking of yourself.

So peeps, before marriage come to your mind, please thinking how you can benefit him/her before thinking what you can gain from him/her.

 

 

Bunny hop

Shyt.

A handful of my colleagues have already tendered their resignation letter already. This leads to another hot topic among us; when is it your turn?

Infact, the people here are good; very good I must say. People from another department, our boss, colleagues, all of them are equally good. But the problem lies with the management.

Yes, ppl can survive with it, but that doesn’t mean they won’t do anything. Once there is an opportunity, they will grab it and go.

I don’t know why I’m so whiny today.

Or maybe I just need to rant.

How to?

Your boss put you in a project and says ‘You, do it.’

So you proceed and do the way you want it, and in the end your boss tells you: ‘Hey, how about you…..’

In such case, should you heed your boss advice or you follow your way?

 

Not a bad one

I struggled whether or not to attend church this morning because my my bad stomach. But thank God, it was a good one and I learnt a lesson so good that I think I would like to share.

Habit 

We like to use it as excuses, adding on that you should accept us of who we are and not forcing us to change our bad habits. But infact, our habits changes over the years.

Perhaps something like:
Waking up at 7am when you are in secondary school because your school is just opposite your block
Waking up at 630am when you are in tertiary education because you will require some time to travel to your school
Waking up at 530am when you are a chao recruit because you need to do so
Waking up at 5am when you are posted to your unit because you stay in the east but your camp is in the west.

And for those who backslide-ed, when did you change your habits of waking up early for church on Sundays?

And why?

Where to?

Leading a self interest life; and until the day everyone hates me, it will be the perfect time for me to go with a valid reason.

Nothing is going to hold me back.

Encore

Things are like going back to square one.

Perhaps there should not be advancement at all because things are not going the way I was expecting.

I kind of fall too hard, or maybe is His will.

Oh well, so be it.

Thou shall not be bother

If you want to get emotional, that is your problem. Do not get people around you get affected because of your attitude.

And I think I should outcast people who are emotionally unstable; they create way too much drama in my life.

There is always option 2

Human make mistakes and it’s inevitable.

Instead of saying sorry, why not think of the solution to tackle it?

Let’s make the world a better place, and when we look back we realize it’s not that jialat after all