I’m an armour technician, but my other friends who are the same vocation are not as good as me. Some still slogging away in Sungei Gedong, some are finding ways to slack, some finding ways to chao keng so that they can be out of course, and of cause there are many more. This is what I meant by same people, different life.
People is a broad topic to talk about, because there are infinite types of people out there. But for life, in think there can be only 3 catergories.
1. Good life
Good life means there is almost nothing for your to worry. Life’s gonna be a smooth sail for you, and there isn’t much things for you to complain. Everything go well and smooth. But are those people leading good life happy? For the rich, they do not have a lot of things to worry about. Yes, money can’t buy everything in the universe, but without money you can’t do a lot of things. So i deducted that money is the Number 1 problem in the world.
A person who is rich don’t need to to worry how he is going to survive tomorrow, at least he has the money to buy food, drinks; and a shelter over his head. But he might be lonely because he hardly has any friends. (I’m not saying rich people don’t have friends, just an example)
Good life? But not happy either.
2. Happy Life
A happy life does not necessary to be wealthy. An average or low income family can lead a happy life too. Strong family bonds, a person doing a job that he loves a lot but not because of the pay, no lack of friends around him, you name it. Good life is not a criteria for leading a happy life. I’m taking a coolie for an example. His work might be tough, and he is always thinking how he can support his family members. However, he has a really caring wife at home and obedient kids at home which perhaps, God gave it to him. He’s having a hard life, but he’s definitely happy with it.
3. Sad life
In reality, there’s no such things as sad life. The problem lies on the person. If he/she put on a long face everyday, keep on complaining on everything and how bad God is treating them and etc, his/her life will definitely be sad. I can’t really imagine a person who is having a really sad life, because the best way to end the torment is suicide. =x
It’s up to you whether which life you really want to lead. Good life is not a must, but a happy life something that is really hard to achieve.